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Feb 15

Here is what I have for you today.

We are all born into a conversation called Good/Bad. We have no say in
it. It is in part culture, in part society and in part the opinions
and beliefs of the people who bring you up. By this I mean family,
extended family, teachers, friends.

These conversations create who you are. You get to be someone in the
face of them. You make decisions based on them. You run life by them.

I am in the middle of a self-development seminar.

I have distinguished so much about my beliefs and the way I perceive
the World, there is little left to distinguish or disappear.

Or have I?

Underneath all these, life just is. It really is that way. We live by
agreements we haven’t even made and yet we don’t do anything to undo
them, in fact we go on to make even more agreements we don’t want to
live by.

“Will you make the tea Mark?” “sure” and underneath that “I don’t want
to” and underneath that “I ought to because she did last night” and
underneath that “I want to earn enough money to get a cook” and “it
ought to be another way”.

All the shoulds and ought to’s in life. All the supposed to be’s. All
hooks into not accepting the world the way it is. And all choices you
haven’t chosen that lead to unhappiness.

Consider for a moment if your life stood for something more important
than merely being conscious.

I mean, we are all conscious right. Why make that your lifes purpose?

Spiritual leaders like Christ and Buddha tell us we should rise above
petty arguments and find spiritual peace, love.

Okay great, I no longer think my neighbour is annoying when his dog
barks at 05:00 am and I don’t want to poison the little bugger. We can
live in harmony. So what!

What if you had a conversation about yourself that made all that stuff
insignificant?

What if you took on something big? Real big?

Want to know where to start?

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See you on the other side of the looking glass,

mark ty wharton

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Jan 14

You don’t know that you don’t know what is going on out there in the world.
And you don’t know that you make it up.
You and 6.8 billion other human beings are going round inventing stuff to provide themselves with explanations of what is happening in the world.
And then, teaching it to one another.
We are teaching it to one another in the form of beliefs.
And once we believe something to be true, our perception of it being true becomes distorted and it appears that it is true even when it is not.
This story is in everything.
It is a Chinese whisper waiting in the park.
It is in every baby’s first kiss.
It is the story of who we are and who we are not.
Take everything away and what have we got?
Nothing!

See you on the other side of the looking glass,

mark ty-wharton

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Sep 27

image2113849892.jpgThis afternoon, my partner Gina suggested we give away an unused laptop rucksack on Freecycle.

“I have my own version of Freecycle” I mused.

We live on a busy little one way system in Biggleswade, so I put the bag in front of our house with a big sign on it saying FREE.

Several hours passed and I really expected the bag to have gone, but no!

So I decided to add incentive for people to stop, by adding another sign, which said FREE MONEY.

Curious to see what would happen, I watched in wonder as car after car drove by.

People even walked past without noticing my sign. They didn’t even look!

Eventually a passing car screeched to a halt, reversed and looked.

After what seemed an age, the driver made a decision. To drive on!

It has to make me wonder.

Is the credit crunch real?

Or is it a belief system?

See you on the other side of the looking glass,

Mark Ty-Wharton.

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Sep 10

I have noticed I do the most extraordinary thing to keep my personal belief systems intact.
I use “weird” as a filter.
Do you?

When something fails to fit in with my version of reality, or how I view the world.
If I choose.
I can simply discount it by using the word weird.
It almost always works every time, guaranteed.

If I believe all Ferraris are red and spot a green one..
“Weird” – I can even find support for my belief system with “look Gina, how weird is that!”
Note the exclamation mark…

Already decided.
Doesn’t fit my version of reality.
Not interested.
“Weird”

Problem solved!

Keep an eye on when you find yourself saying it.

See you on the other side of the looking glass,

Mark Ty-Wharton.

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Sep 06

So is this the real secret behind the secret?

Masturbation!

It is a long held belief that the most creative time for a human mind is betwixt sleep and the waking state.

Most of us use this excuse to lull in bed a while and think of a morning before rising (no pun intended).

But how else to get there.

For men, the act that leads to spent sexual energy (having a wank) can lead to a rapid descent into unconsciousness shortly thereafter.

In Napoleon Hill’s book ‘Think And Grow Rich’ he dedicates an entire chapter to it.

Transmutation of sexual energy…

Wanking!

I might be stereotyping here, but why is it that Rhonda Byrne fails to mention it in her book ‘The Secret’.

Perhaps only men can do it?

Get out the old magic wand, rub and visualise.

But as Napoleon explains, be careful what you are thinking when you ejaculate.

Better still, hold it on the edge for hours and think about big piles of money.

And when you are done?

You lull into the mindset of creation.

How you feel about wanking is probably of vital importance.

If you are a guilty wanker, you will create an energy block.

The lull afterwards is “the” moment of creation. Think about it. It is where each and every one of us came from. You as well!

Men, take advice.

Rub it, love it, manifest!

See you on the other side of the looking glass,

Mark Ty-Wharton.

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Jul 02

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I have a fun idea for plots for sci-fi novels.

I am rather hoping someone will write one.

The basic idea is to take a regular sci-fi plot and reverse it.

In sci-fi the story line often hinges on a central character who sees the truth (according to the plot) and who everyone thinks is mad.

They often believe in a conspiracy theory that defies others’ belief systems which later turns out to be true.

A classic example would be Sarah Connor in the Terminator series.

In my sci-fi story, the roles are reversed.

The main character believes in what we currently believe in, reality.

The entire cast of characters in the story believe in something else.

In my latest incarnation of this idea…

The main character thinks there is a system called time which we must adhere to.

Around him in common reality there is no time.

There is no past, present or future.

He is the ONE person with this idea.

And is believed to be mad.

Of course, they lock him up.

I am quite sure it would be very hard to write such a novel.

I am also certain it could be a very clever play on reality and the person who wrote it would be considered a ground breaking author if they could pull it off.

See you on the other side of the looking glass,

creative thinker | innovator | visionary

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May 04

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In the past months, I have been contemplating my life’s purpose on this planet.

I have been barking at the moon, complaining at God and kicking the big D in the balls.

I am reminded life boils down to one simple concept, LOVE.

You either use it, or abuse it. Human beings, every one of us, do both…

Even when our intentions seem pure, when we look again, there is always a caveat we haven’t noticed in ourselves.

The simple act of being human means we will always have work to do. Anyone that says otherwise is a fu*king liar.

So who am I?

A musician?

While my autistic mind sees music in a very mathematical way and I am more suited to technical pursuits in the studio than standing on stage with a guitar staring at my feet, even under the wing of the kindest of rock star my beacon has no chance to really shine that brightly.

Does my name leap out at you from the tens of millions of CDs it has appeared on?

Probably not.

Okay if you were looking for Ty-Wharton, I’ll give you a hint.

My nickname is ‘Tinley’ A.K.A. Tinley, The Sampling Champion Of The Universe.

Now, if you check your 14th century dictionary (if you can find one) you will probably find out that the word ‘Tinley’ means religious torch.

If you can’t find it there, speak to an aficionado of ‘Call My Bluff’ for a back episode.

So who am I?

I am and have always been a writer, from a family of writers.

Right now I am here to shine my ‘Tinley’ at the ‘law of attraction’ – to help YOU ask the right questions to find the answer to life, the Universe and everything.

And compared to my guitar playing it’s going very well!

There is not a day that goes by, without me receiving at least one email complimenting my writing and how much my ideas and book have helped someone find some of life’s answers (for them).

I tend to scratch my head a bit and think “Wow, okay that’s cool”.

I have been using the principles of ‘law of attraction’ for over thirty years, but do I really know exactly how it works?

And if I don’t then what qualifies me to write a book about it?

Again, who am I?

I would like to answer that with a question.

My good friend Emily asked me to consider the martial arts today.

In particular I have personal experience of Tai Chi.

I am a student of Taoist Tai Chi, as is my instructor, my instructor’s instructor and so on based on traditions going back some eight hundred or more years.

And the Universe has permission from each of these people to be a channel for its wisdom.

The true wisdom of a good Tai Chi instructor comes from knowing nothing.

By definition a statement of expertise, tells you a person has nothing to learn about a subject.

When a person has nothing to learn about a subject, perhaps they have nothing to teach?

Perhaps a true teaching qualification would be a willingness to learn from each and every encounter and to pass on that wisdom as an invitation or instruction.

In my opinion, we need more facilitators, instructors and students and less experts!

So consider the following.

And please interpret this using your own concept or definition of God, the Universe or whatever suits your beliefs.

You are not on this planet because The Universe wants to teach you something.

In fact you are not on this planet to learn anything at all.

There are NO ANSWERS.

The Universe did not create all this and put YOU here to give you the answers.

The Universe actually hasn’t got a fu*king clue either!

And the one thing the Universe knows absolutely NOTHING about is the ‘law of attraction’.

We are actually here so that the Universe can figure out how it works.

Go on to consider that WE are the Universe’s super computer at work, calculating an outcome so it can come to an understanding of life’s mysteries.

So, if you are consistently getting it wrong, you are doing exactly what the Universe put you here for.

If you think you’ve failed, you’ve succeeded…

Well done, go have a beer, cigarette, hot dog, whatever you fancy. You don’t need to read any further!

However if you think you have got it all figured…

You think you are the switched on guru?

The master?

The great teacher?

The deity?

Wow…

STOP!!!

THINK AGAIN…

No, really – think again!!!

Do not go live with “I am an expert I can teach you this”.

Or “If you would only follow my method you could have success”.

Okay, you may give others the appearance of success, but you WILL ultimately fail yourself.

And the Universe is watching!

Now try modeling this theory in our world.

An example?

I am using a computer to type this.

If this computer had conscious awareness it might be thinking – this guy Mark, who is bashing wildly at my keys is trying to tell me something.

Whoa.

He just deleted that entire paragraph (read into that – created a Tsunami in Word Press).

What did the Tsunami mean?

What if it meant nothing?

In the words of the brilliant philosopher Werner Erhard “It’s all empty and meaningless (and it’s empty and meaningless that it’s empty and meaningless).”

But why?

And why is real happiness found in simply accepting what is and what isn’t?

We cannot connect with consciousness, when we are already simply part of the machinery of consciousness. How can we possibly connect to something which we already are?

So many unanswered questions.

As I said earlier, all of life boils down to one simple concept.

LOVE!

The Universe is in itself LOVE, which doesn’t mean anything, until you realise the Universe itself is trying to learn about and experience LOVE, whatever that might be.

The concept of LOVE shows up everywhere, because the Universe is using itself as a test bed for the concept of LOVE. Or should I say its own concept of itself.

If the Universe is a mad scientist, then YOU are its experiment.

All of creation is using the energy of LOVE to attract and create more LOVE. This will happen infinitely until such a time as all of creation (LOVE) understands all of creation (LOVE).

And the Universe is learning about this moment by moment, through YOU!

How does it relate to ‘law of attraction’?

Once you understand the mechanism, you can actually become a magnet for anything you want to attract into your life.

You are encouraged to feel gratitude.

Go a step further.

Understand the energy of LOVE!

Become LOVE and you become the Universe, the creator. Refute LOVE and you cannot be yourself. You become a lie.

Accept LOVE and that LOVE means different things for different people.

There ARE people on this planet who LOVE doing things you do not.

And please remember, the entire mechanism of life is completely intangible and totally unpredictable.

At any second the truth may simply stop being the truth!

Therefore anyone who claims to have all life’s answers is probably misguided and missing the point.

Don’t let anyone tell you they know exactly how something works.

If your guru is still learning then they have something to teach you!

Which is why, if you are reading my blog, the less I know about anything I write about, in a way, the better it is for you.

Because the more I try to learn and not to teach, the more I will instruct and the more we will both learn.

I am here to question ‘the law of attraction’.

Are you?

Do I know everything there is to know about the ‘law of attraction’?

By reading this you already know something I don’t.

Please comment below.

If you enjoyed reading this blog, you will find more than a handful of similar thought provoking conversations in my book The Logic Of Attraction.

I invite you to buy it here.

See you on the other side of the looking glass,

creative thinker | innovator | visionary

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Apr 23

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My partner just pulled me up on something I wrote in yesterday’s blog.

The part I wrote about money.

We nearly always agree on everything and just discovered something which we totally disagree on.

Utterly fascinating.

She would LOVE to win the lottery.

I felt quite angry and said “I would rather commit suicide than win the lottery”.

She said “If I won twenty seven million on the lottery I would use it to start a business and make another twenty seven million”.

I replied “but what’s the fu*king point of that, I want to make my own money, it has to be an acknowledgement of who I am”.

Which is interesting, because I suddenly realise I have a belief system where I have money and self-worth collapsed.

I use money as a measure of my effectiveness in the world.

And perhaps my money reflects my self worth. Or at the least that I have done something worthwhile.

Yet bizarrely, I made the majority of my salary last year by doing bugger all.

A very good friend of mine once commented on the fact I was more anxious and depressed when I didn’t have money. He suggested if I got all my loans sorted out, I would be much happier.

I think he may have had it the wrong way around.

On the surface it looked that way, the reality was the anxiety and depression probably reflected my self-worth and my money situation simply ran parallel to it.

As I said in my blog the other night, I am learning about self-worth. I am learning I don’t need external validation.

Imagine a life where every criticism knocks you flat.

That’s been me up until now.

So maybe there are some other questions I should asking myself about money…

Maybe you could ask the same questions.

Of all the people I know who have money, who has done something worthwhile?

Do I know anyone (who doesn’t have this belief system) with a lot of money who is truly worthless as a human being?

If money isn’t a measure of value, what is it a measure of?

Is money simply a stand alone energy we can have as little or as much as we like of?

If I got given a twenty seven million dollar advance for my next book how would I feel about it? (considering I haven’t written it yet)

And finally…

If I would rather commit suicide than win the lottery, why do I enter every week?

See you on the other side of the looking glass,

creative thinker | innovator | visionary

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Apr 22

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Apparently some scientist, Victor Stenger to be precise, has debunked “quantum belief”.

The notion that quantum physics connects the human mind to the universe, allowing us to create our own reality.

In a way it’s great, because with that out the way we can start looking at how and why the Law of Attraction really works.

You don’t need to be a quantum physicist to understand it, it really is much simpler.

It works on belief and positive mental, physical and spiritual attitude. It works on perceptual shifts and most of all it’s driven by love.

I don’t need money or stuff to live my adventure, in fact if I had too much money or stuff it would be a spoiler at this stage in the game.

Don’t look to me to be driving a Rolls Royce (unless it is one from the twenties with a whining gearbox), in which case I would rather be driving a supercharged Bentley.

I like to think I arrived in this world in much the same way as in the Woody Allen film “Everything You Wanted To Know About Sex But Were Afraid To Ask” though perhaps from heaven via a spiritual bob sleigh.

When I chose my options, before embarking on my journey, I chose to be on a spectacular spiritual treasure hunt.

Today I was in a fun part of the game.

I was at the house I attracted using my logical super computer today and something reminded me of shipping containers I had seen on the outskirts of the town we are moving to.

I went and visited the yard and I have been offered a really nice one, painted and delivered for a remarkable price.

Which brings me around to my integrity issue.

Having found an alternative vendor, I get to pay less for the thing I was buying for £950 – what’s more I get to buy it from a reputable company and I am paying the tax on it.

As for the other job, I paid him £40 cash.

Partly because we had already made the agreement and my guess is it was beer money.

Partly because I would have come across as odd (in my mind) if I had asked if I could pay buy cheque and pay more.

More importantly, everyone else I contacted had quoted me £70 or more, I had asked the Universe for someone who would do it cheaper and he showed up with an offer.

Who am I to argue with that?

And no, I am not going to answer the question!

See you on the other side of the looking glass,

creative thinker | innovator | visionary

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