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Here is what I have for you today.

We are all born into a conversation called Good/Bad. We have no say in
it. It is in part culture, in part society and in part the opinions
and beliefs of the people who bring you up. By this I mean family,
extended family, teachers, friends.

These conversations create who you are. You get to be someone in the
face of them. You make decisions based on them. You run life by them.

I am in the middle of a self-development seminar.

I have distinguished so much about my beliefs and the way I perceive
the World, there is little left to distinguish or disappear.

Or have I?

Underneath all these, life just is. It really is that way. We live by
agreements we haven’t even made and yet we don’t do anything to undo
them, in fact we go on to make even more agreements we don’t want to
live by.

“Will you make the tea Mark?” “sure” and underneath that “I don’t want
to” and underneath that “I ought to because she did last night” and
underneath that “I want to earn enough money to get a cook” and “it
ought to be another way”.

All the shoulds and ought to’s in life. All the supposed to be’s. All
hooks into not accepting the world the way it is. And all choices you
haven’t chosen that lead to unhappiness.

Consider for a moment if your life stood for something more important
than merely being conscious.

I mean, we are all conscious right. Why make that your lifes purpose?

Spiritual leaders like Christ and Buddha tell us we should rise above
petty arguments and find spiritual peace, love.

Okay great, I no longer think my neighbour is annoying when his dog
barks at 05:00 am and I don’t want to poison the little bugger. We can
live in harmony. So what!

What if you had a conversation about yourself that made all that stuff
insignificant?

What if you took on something big? Real big?

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See you on the other side of the looking glass,

mark ty wharton

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My interest in self development has always been about finding inner peace.

Then a couple of years back, I started to get frustrated about the way I handle money.

I looked at money and money gurus.

I realised I hated people with money. They were bad people. Then I looked at a list of the richest people and found out the people I hated were doing a lot of good in the world. It was a nice thing to find out, though nothing changed in my personal circumstances.

I was in the bath earlier listening to an audio book. The author suggested we form our opinions when we are little children (by the time we are six) and they stay with us for life.

Great, I thought. So how could I apply that to money?

As I lay there in the bath an image popped into my head of me sitting on a swing in my childhood garden with a tin box on my knees. I am six years old. It is an image I have often recalled when trying to decode money issues.

In the box I have some money. A ten shilling note and a fifty pence piece. I am wondering over the shape of the freshly minted coin. It is not a hexagon or an octagon, it has seven sides. I often tell people the story. It’s quite a magical memory. But wait, I have left something out.

In the box is a book. The book has printed columns and I have carefully worked out how much money is in the box. The columns relate to pounds, shillings and pennies. I am the ONLY boy in my class who can do this.

There are twelve pennies in a shilling and twenty shillings in one pound. I had also finally figured out the meaning of a guinea, twenty one shillings. It had taken a long time to learn all this and it is very complicated. I even knew the relationship between crowns, half crowns, florins, sixpences and threepenny bits.

As I recall all this I am aware of a huge and overwhelming disappointment. It lives in me now like a “what’s the point” an absolute hatred, like a “have to” do. And I don’t want to, it ruins everything!

With pounds, shillings and pennies (L s d) I got to be brilliant. And here was a new shiny fifty pence piece. And with it, a new system. A hundred pence in a pound. Ten shillings (one hundred and twenty pennies) equals fifty pence. No more “If Tom buys five apples for threepence and Mary has a shilling, how much change will Jack have from a crown?”

I hated the new system, plain and simple. I had spent hours on the old system and now it seemed I had completely wasted my time. What was the point?

I was a very clever boy and could show how clever I was with money. Nobody else understood it. And THEY had ruined it!

Any idiot can add up base 10. Really!

What’s the point!!!

THAT feeling, associated with money?

I got…

I HATE MONEY

See you on the other side of the looking glass,

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In Law Of Attraction, we created a rule for the Universe with two meanings.

An idea which can be empowering or destructive, depending on how you perceive and apply it.

One occurs as the final desperate act of a dying animal. The expectation that magic should be present, because the proponent of the law projects need into the future, as a solution for something seen as broken in life.

The other occurs like magic. When one is free of desire one automatically becomes an instrument of the Universe.

It becomes possible to take actions consistent with a future that truly leaves you satisfied.

And therein lies the paradox.

How is it possible to attain ones goals without striving to achieve them?

The key is in stepping up to a new level of responsibilty. A place where one chooses which thoughts are thoughts and which thoughts will dictate reality.

The proof lies in our noticing. What we see is what we get. Getting what we see is a bigger matter.

Did John manifest a new car, or did he just buy one? Did Lucy manifest a large sum of money, or did she just retire early and ask for a payoff?

The mind will always get proof of something without a predefined specific measurable result.

It is like a parlour psychic corroborating petty predictions to appease a difficult child.

So how does one perform the real magic?

By loving your life as it is now.

When you are truly satisfied with this moment and it occurs to you like “nothing wrong here” you have the key to the Universe. Anything is possible.

This is true enlightenment. True perfection. The ultimate expression of reality.

And from reality you can create anything you can think of.

Seek not material wealth as an end on to a journey. The journey is always complete.

See you on the other side of the looking glass,

mark ty wharton

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The death of two people in a sweat lodge in Sedona, offers us a very interesting opportunity to look at the energy we are using in life and ultimately at what we are attracting.

Negative or positive?

It is very easy to be sucked into the media’s version of events. Ray is inexperienced and out to make a quick buck?

The Internet is littered with articles vilifying Ray and his practices. Mine is not one of them.

I am not applauding his actions either, but realise in the past year or so, something in me has shifted.

The media encourages us to seek out and revel in the negativity of it all. It is the soft sell, get at the basic emotions and hook people.

The story we are being offered is interesting, compelling even, but it is badly researched and simply not true.

I have recently been listening to an interview Bill Harris recorded with James Ray as part of The Masters Of The Secret series. (also on iTunes).

Despite the spin the media are putting on it, it is absolutely clear from the interview that Ray is incredibly experienced in more than one set of spiritual practices, having studied with groups all over the World.

The Native Americans are claiming he was performing one of their rituals, on their land. They then go on to claim Ray was doing it all wrong. But was he?

Here is my take on it.

$10,000?

Why not?

It is a six day course and James Ray has spent a lifetime learning various spiritual practices and bundled them together into the “Spiritual Warrior” package which is ultimately designed to help people.

He is entitled to charge as much as he likes for his time and services.

Arguing that Native Americans don’t charge for the same service is ridiculous, given that the service was completely different from and traditional Native American culture is based on barter.

In Native American culture they still would have given him something valuable, some tobacco, some food, a horse.

Try getting that one past the IRS!

More important, the money from these courses goes into running a business that provides less profitable seminars all around the world. As far as I can tell, he sows seeds of abundance in people that go way beyond the financial.

Yes, we can pick at his business practices and find fault, but if YOU are doing that… WHAT are YOU attracting with this energy?

Okay, clearly something did go wrong. The reality is two people died. But why they died has yet to be determined.

When someone is doing something groundbreaking and new, what do we have to judge it against when things go wrong?

Until the cause is clear, give James A Ray the benefit of doubt.

Simply send the sick your love and good will.

And… This includes Ray, he may be sick too… One possible reason he left, of many.

You can choose to be positive, or negative about it.

Maybe 49 people had an incredible experience, perhaps all did to that point?

Being positive or negative, putting in your energy, having your say…

It may, or may not, make a difference to this situation, ultimately it will make a difference in YOU.

This is mine…

I have read a lot of negative things about James A Ray in the past few days; people telling their poor me stories about how he was horrible to them in one of his seminars.

Hello there… Isn’t that what you always do?

When will these “poor me” stories STOP?

If it fits you, then take responsibility for your feelings!

If seminar leaders are horrible to you, you probably NEEDED it to see you, to GET your perception of things.

Frankly, if you are still complaining, you just won’t get it!

Hit the comments below. Get it off your chest.

Which side of the looking glass are you on this one?

I am with the positive reflection!

See you there…

mark ty-wharton, creative thinker | innovator | visionary

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Somewhere in Biggleswade, not far from my house, is a tree.

Attached to the tree with a clothes peg is a five pound note.

It is an amount of money I am comfortable with giving away on a one off experiment to a random stranger.

I kind of wish it was a fifty pound note, but it is not.

So far it has been there about ten minutes.

I have mixed feelings.

I want to see who gets it.

I want to let it go.

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This afternoon, my partner Gina suggested we give away an unused laptop rucksack on Freecycle.

“I have my own version of Freecycle” I mused.

We live on a busy little one way system in Biggleswade, so I put the bag in front of our house with a big sign on it saying FREE.

Several hours passed and I really expected the bag to have gone, but no!

So I decided to add incentive for people to stop, by adding another sign, which said FREE MONEY.

Curious to see what would happen, I watched in wonder as car after car drove by.

People even walked past without noticing my sign. They didn’t even look!

Eventually a passing car screeched to a halt, reversed and looked.

After what seemed an age, the driver made a decision. To drive on!

It has to make me wonder.

Is the credit crunch real?

Or is it a belief system?

See you on the other side of the looking glass,

Mark Ty-Wharton.

Money has always been a problem for me.

I love problems.

It gives me something to solve.

It is my edge, where I excel and get to be profound.

If you have a problem, ask a genius to solve it.

And today I get to be a genius around money.

My money.

This blog isn’t my usual helpful prose. No clever advice. It is a personal declaration.

I am done with tackling my own money problem. There is nothing to solve. It can look after itself.

What I love about my attitude to money is “I really don’t care”.

Rich or poor, you can be my friend.

When I try to deviate to fit in, it goes wrong.

Money is irrelevant.

It will come as it comes and it needs no energy wasted on it.

If I am driven by solving a problem about money (because I spent my taxes on a huge motorcycle) then I am driven by the wrong thing.

What is important to me?

There is an important message in my book!

Read it!!!

See you on the other side of the looking glass,

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What have you noticed today?
Let me guess.

If you drive a car and you have been anywhere, you probably spotted another like it, or similar.

Perhaps someone reminded you of someone else you know?

Or something about your day reminded you of yesterday, or tomorrow?

Your day will have been punctuated with things which are already in your consciousness.

Your actions will have made sense to you given the values you already hold in your consciousness.

Things outside your mindset will have gone un-noticed or been ignored.

So…

Where am I going with this?

Yes, you guessed it.

What haven’t you noticed?

What you haven’t noticed is you are noticing these things.

You have been programmed by everything that has happened to you this far in life, to operate within your own paradigm of understanding.

In other words – you will only see more of what you already know and understand.

When you see it – it is a completion in your consciousness.

Like, aha, yes, this is reality, great!

So here is a game…

If I assume I notice Peugeot cars, because I drive one…

What if I deliberately start noticing Bentleys, Jaguars and Rolls ROyces?

I get to drive one?

What if I deliberately start noticing people who look like they have money?

I get to be a billionare?

What if I deliberately gravitate towards the mindset of noticing the things I would like to have?

Well…

What if…

As part of the mind game, when I see one of these things, I could drop “there’s a jaguar, just like mine” into my psychological landscape.

You notice the things you have more, than the things you do not have, because they are already in your consciousness.

Do you think?

Noticing the things you aspire towards, closes the loop.

See you on the other side of the looking glass,

Mark Ty-Wharton, author of The Logic Of Attraction.

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So is this the real secret behind the secret?

Masturbation!

It is a long held belief that the most creative time for a human mind is betwixt sleep and the waking state.

Most of us use this excuse to lull in bed a while and think of a morning before rising (no pun intended).

But how else to get there.

For men, the act that leads to spent sexual energy (having a wank) can lead to a rapid descent into unconsciousness shortly thereafter.

In Napoleon Hill’s book ‘Think And Grow Rich’ he dedicates an entire chapter to it.

Transmutation of sexual energy…

Wanking!

I might be stereotyping here, but why is it that Rhonda Byrne fails to mention it in her book ‘The Secret’.

Perhaps only men can do it?

Get out the old magic wand, rub and visualise.

But as Napoleon explains, be careful what you are thinking when you ejaculate.

Better still, hold it on the edge for hours and think about big piles of money.

And when you are done?

You lull into the mindset of creation.

How you feel about wanking is probably of vital importance.

If you are a guilty wanker, you will create an energy block.

The lull afterwards is “the” moment of creation. Think about it. It is where each and every one of us came from. You as well!

Men, take advice.

Rub it, love it, manifest!

See you on the other side of the looking glass,

Mark Ty-Wharton.