In Law Of Attraction, we created a rule for the Universe with two meanings.
An idea which can be empowering or destructive, depending on how you perceive and apply it.
One occurs as the final desperate act of a dying animal. The expectation that magic should be present, because the proponent of the law projects need into the future, as a solution for something seen as broken in life.
The other occurs like magic. When one is free of desire one automatically becomes an instrument of the Universe.
It becomes possible to take actions consistent with a future that truly leaves you satisfied.
And therein lies the paradox.
How is it possible to attain ones goals without striving to achieve them?
The key is in stepping up to a new level of responsibilty. A place where one chooses which thoughts are thoughts and which thoughts will dictate reality.
The proof lies in our noticing. What we see is what we get. Getting what we see is a bigger matter.
Did John manifest a new car, or did he just buy one? Did Lucy manifest a large sum of money, or did she just retire early and ask for a payoff?
The mind will always get proof of something without a predefined specific measurable result.
It is like a parlour psychic corroborating petty predictions to appease a difficult child.
So how does one perform the real magic?
By loving your life as it is now.
When you are truly satisfied with this moment and it occurs to you like “nothing wrong here” you have the key to the Universe. Anything is possible.
This is true enlightenment. True perfection. The ultimate expression of reality.
And from reality you can create anything you can think of.
Seek not material wealth as an end on to a journey. The journey is always complete.
See you on the other side of the looking glass,
mark ty wharton
Okay.
Panic Away is working.
I can see I initially had generalized anxiety as a child, then as I got older started to add situational anxiety into the mix.
When I was around 17 or 18 I tried smoking grass. While the initial effect left me with a profound at oneness with the Universe, my experience only extended as far as my high school religious teacher’s understanding of Bhuddism.
I really made it all mean something it was not.
Once at the public house that we were walking to, the laughter became an acute panic attack coupled with a feeling I was going mad.
Thirty years later I get to see I have my conversations about enlightenment and my experiences taking drugs collapsed.
My experience of getting high, IS a panic attack. So my experience of panic IS of expanded consciousness.
I am afraid if I expand consciousness too far, I will lose touch with real Mark and never get back.
I hold my breath for ages, then take a series of fast breaths till I get to the point I will faint.
I suspect I may have fainted at some point while “out of it” and don’t recall the event.
Up until the weekend I had a fear of not remembering what I had done.
Or, I would hazard a guess at it being the dentist, or an operation. Maybe how I interpreted something they said while I was under.
What I am really enjoying is being in the game of disappearing panic.
I can live with it sure, I have done it forever.
I can’t live with the conversation I am an enlightened being though, it is ridiculous.
Landmark Education just handed me a profound new understanding of what it is to be human, it is.
My understanding is Landmark is not really about enlightenment. What I have got is enlightenment about enlightenment!
There’s a looking glass sure, the reality on the other side is way deeper than mere reflection and certainly not whacky.
And breathe 
See you on the other side,
mark ty wharton
I decided to find a place to practice my Tai Chi this morning and play a game with it.
If you have been with me for a while, you will know one of my teachers is NLP guru Mr Twenty Twenty.
Twenty is remarkable in that he has been to the other side of death and come back.
I decided to play Tai Chi from different spaces and states this morning.
At first I was very internal auditory and very spaced out spiritually. Like outside my body, or at the very least not in touch with my kinaesthetic system.
I noticed I was creating anxiety, stress and worry. There was nothing expansive about the experience.
I tried a few other combinations, then I decided to experience Tai Chi the way a human being is designed.
I focused auditory externally and entered a state where my mind seemed to stop. A listening. An analogy might be that it was like being a Bhudda on a mountain top. Spiritual peace, silence.
I focused kinaesthetic internally and noticed my body and how it felt. I had a real sense of me, in the cold, in the woods, being me in the silence of the sounds around me.
I watched the Universe around me. The trees, the leaves, I could almost see the air moving. As I used my eyes properly things got brighter, more vivid.
Then I played a new game. A game called expansion. I imagined the silence in my head as an infinite being.
I wondered at my ability to push the boundaries of this infinite being outside of me.
Having expanded my spirit to the edge of my reach I realised I had created a zone. A clearing in the woods. A clearing in the Universe that is me.
Then I created a new story.
Right now I am in someone else’s space. And that person is standing in that space for my life.
Their space is so huge they create new paradigms for people to live into. And they get they are just another person!
And I can do that too.
I can be anything I want to be.
I can be as mango is to onion (sweetness is to tears). I can be the gold at the end of the rainbow. I can be the lightning in the night sky. I can be Aladdin in the hall of kings. I can be truly magical.
Kind of an amazing story to create from a Chinese walk in the woods.
Something to be alive for…
And maybe, just maybe, there is nowhere to get to. This rabbit hole is just another story. Another round on the golf course. A stance. A posture. A way of being.
But for that you’ll need to talk with my other friend in dharmaville, TP.
See you on the other side of the looking glass,
mark ty wharton
The Logic Of Attraction
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Mark's book is very different. He has a compelling insight
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So you like to think of yourself as, or know someone who is a logical thinker…
The Law Of Attraction with all its magic lucky clovers and new age manifestation is bull, right?
This book might just sway that opinion.
A no nonsense approach to basic human psychology and conditioning that will have it’s reader holding onto their reading chair and reaching for the eject lever.
This book will explain how to take control of your life and
do all the things you always wanted to do in a clear
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Particularly aimed at people who are curious about how The Law Of Attraction works; yet may be sceptical, or would not normally associate themselves with ideas from the new thought movement.
Tried your co-workers, husband, wife, grandparents on The Secret and they just won’t listen?
Are you ready to give a life you LOVE and share the LOVE you live?
Whatever your spiritual calling, or understanding of reality, I promise this book WILL work for you!
A set of answers to life, the Universe and everything…
©2009 http://www.thelogicofattraction.com
Holographic Creativity Program
"This evening instead of taking my usual nap after work,
I put your creativity program on instead.
It had a remarkable effect...
I feel really relaxed and rested now, and I'm looking
forward to my next try.
You are really on to something here..." Klaus, Norway.
After researching famous creative people from the past, I discovered it was common practice for notable names to have afternoon naps, so I decided to meditate/sleep in the afternoon to increase my creativity.
Unable to find a suitable audio program for myself to meditate/sleep with, I created my own starting with a binaural/holographic recording of dolphins leaping in the North Sea that I made with my daughter Cloudia.
Then I looked at the technology in the Voyager brain training machine I bought in the early nineties. It uses audio tones to create the illusion of a beat frequency for your brain to synchronise to.
I have created a program that starts by simulating the kind of brain waves we experience while sleeping or in deep meditation.
After about twenty minutes I alert the listener and invoke brain waves that simulate stage 5 REM sleep. One aim of polyphasic sleep is to increase creativity by going directly to stage 5 REM sleep during power naps. This program is designed have a similar effect, without having to go to the extremes of sleep deprivation.
Listening to stage 5 REM beat frequencies while coming out
of sleep could be the most creative brain wave pattern a
human being could experience.
The program ends with a brief musical section and brings you gently back to conciousness at which point you are advised to make a record of your creative thoughts on a notepad or dictaphone.
It is essential to use stereo headphones. Please listen responsibly. Do not listen while driving or operating machinery. I do not recommend you listen to this program if you have a history of epilepsy or a seizure disorder.
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Brain synchronization tones, binaural/holographic recordings, music and sounds by Cloudia Tinley & Mark Ty-Wharton.
Long ago in a cave not too many miles from here, lived a man and his name was…
He spent his life in meditation, believing he was connected with the Universe.
And while of course we all are, this man was in no more way any more connected than you or I.
He chose to live his life, addicted to his own inner processes.
He chose to live his life *thinking* endorphines into his bloodstream.
He was a self absorbed junkie.
Nothing more.
By NOT thinking, he simply became a vessel for his own natural drug and became a slave to it.
What are you going to experience today?
Meditate, by all means and enjoy it.
We are gifted the bliss of deep relaxation by the Gods – a free high, like sex – it has purpose.
But DON’T get lost in it.
What are you going to do when you wake up?
Tell me a story about when meditation changed the world…
Now tell me a story about when it didn’t…
Are you thinking now?
See you on the other side of the looking glass,
Mark Ty-Wharton.
[mark ty-wharton, creative thinker | innovator | visionary 
]
I am sitting in the hairdresser with my daughter.
There is an atmosphere in here.
Feel good music plays in the background, a track from the eighties that would have been on the radio when I was a few years older than Cloud is now.
And overlaying that the hubbub of friendly chatter.
The clack of a flip flop.
The sweeping of a broom.
The building seems silent, content.
Nothing terrible has happened here as far as I can tell.
Cloud is sitting in a shower of hair.
Occassionally we exchange glances.
The hair dresser talks of feathers, razors and blends.
After a while I read ‘Woman’s Own’ and catch up on the plot of Eastenders.
What I feel is that it is hard to occupy my mind with anything serious here for more than a few seconds.
I could not work through, or solve a problem in this atmosphere by any means.
This is a place where women escape.
While this place is about defining looks, it is all about feelings or the plain simple lack of meaningful thought.
So what am I picking up.
In general, a group of people who seem happy with their lives.
People willing to let conversation flow where it needs to go.
Like a bubbling brook.
Clear, sparkling, fresh, bright.
She can speak Spanish.
Do you.
When did you find out.
Aww.
See you on the other side of the looking glass,
I love my life, I really do, but am I really living it? Or will I live it tomorrow, when time has already been and gone?
There are versions of the life I could have lived, lost out there in the sands of time because of the choices I’ve made.
The obvious ones are forgotten lovers.
I have fallen in love with several people during my life, and with the exception of my current relationship, I almost never recognize it at the time.
It used to be hard to distinguish between a person who comforted my anxiety and someone who really lit me up.
I can count on one hand the people I didn’t do enough for and in turn they slipped through these same fingers in one way or another.
Even in my current relationship I am now wondering if I am doing enough to nurture it’s longevity for a lifetime.
It is easy to fall into a routine as love blossoms. I have everything I want and more, perhaps I need to remind my partner of this more often.
I awoke from a dream earlier and it was so real, for a moment I thought it was really happening.
When I was 16 I fell in love with someone a lot younger than me.
When I was 18 or 19 I left a relationship I was in to be with that person.
I was only with her for a matter of moments, but the experience was amazing.
More significant things happened in that week of my teenage life than in any other.
I redefined my taste in music and experienced the timeless bliss of love in summer meadows, wondering at the nature of the Universe.
What happened next was a bit of a life changing event.
Under massive pressure from my friends, I was persuaded to return to my original pining girlfriend.
I was told that knocking around with a load of 15 and 16 year olds, going to parties with them, just wasn’t cool.
Getting back with my original girlfriend massaged my ego, for a split second she was flatteringly attentive.
Familiar ground and a reunion late at night led to me walking home in turmoil.
Stupidly, I succumbed to everyone else’s advice and made a wrong decision (for me).
I don’t think I saw the other girl for many years after that.
Somewhere in the back of my mind some infinite possibilities were lost.
Somewhere in the pit of my stomach 30 years on I can occasionally remember the feeling of separation.
Not for the first time, I had given up love, for the opinion of others. I was a fool!
Within days, the original relationship went back to being a roller coaster ride of jealousy, even dominated my life for 8 months when I moved to London shortly afterwards.
So what do I think might have happened if I had stood up to my peers?
Who knows, I may even have stayed in my home town? I might even be there today…
I actually have a recurring dream where I am a bit older and walk the route to the girl’s house.
In my dreams we are together under all sorts of different circumstances.
Last night I was in Los Angeles going to meet her at a party.
And when I wake up, I almost never realize I am 46 years old and have a daughter the same age this girl was when I first met her.
I haven’t seen her in years, yet a part of her is somehow stuck with me.
Some of the things we did are like photographic memories.
But why does this relationship stick in my mind?
I don’t think she is someone I need to suddenly have in my life thirty years on. I don’t even think I should have done anything any differently. What I have now, wisdom, is no match for youth. And I probably wouldn’t give it too much thought if it wasn’t for the dreams.
I definitely would not change the relationship I am currently in. By design, it is perfect.
I struggled through countless relationships to decide what works and what doesn’t to find out the kind of relationship I want to be in.
When I met my current partner, I immediately knew she was the one.
They say, you’ll know true love when you find it.
I am not sure as a teenager I knew very much about anything.
With benefit of thirty years hindsight perhaps!
As she sat there on the back of my friend’s moped, all those years ago, I was mesmerized.
And when my chance came?
Perhaps I wasn’t ready to “accept” love and felt I had to fight for it?
Or perhaps the lesson is more simple?
I think the answer is, I didn’t have the wisdom to take a stand for what I believed in.
I didn’t take responsibility for my feelings and fight for my right to be in love.
So you see, that is why I am grateful for that lesson and grateful for the dreams.
They remind me to love the people I love now and not wait thirty years to tell them I have loved them.
To stop and count my blessings, and to always do what is right for me!
See you on the other side of the looking glass,
In the past months, I have been contemplating my life’s purpose on this planet.
I have been barking at the moon, complaining at God and kicking the big D in the balls.
I am reminded life boils down to one simple concept, LOVE.
You either use it, or abuse it. Human beings, every one of us, do both…
Even when our intentions seem pure, when we look again, there is always a caveat we haven’t noticed in ourselves.
The simple act of being human means we will always have work to do. Anyone that says otherwise is a fu*king liar.
So who am I?
A musician?
While my autistic mind sees music in a very mathematical way and I am more suited to technical pursuits in the studio than standing on stage with a guitar staring at my feet, even under the wing of the kindest of rock star my beacon has no chance to really shine that brightly.
Does my name leap out at you from the tens of millions of CDs it has appeared on?
Probably not.
Okay if you were looking for Ty-Wharton, I’ll give you a hint.
My nickname is ‘Tinley’ A.K.A. Tinley, The Sampling Champion Of The Universe.
Now, if you check your 14th century dictionary (if you can find one) you will probably find out that the word ‘Tinley’ means religious torch.
If you can’t find it there, speak to an aficionado of ‘Call My Bluff’ for a back episode.
So who am I?
I am and have always been a writer, from a family of writers.
Right now I am here to shine my ‘Tinley’ at the ‘law of attraction’ – to help YOU ask the right questions to find the answer to life, the Universe and everything.
And compared to my guitar playing it’s going very well!
There is not a day that goes by, without me receiving at least one email complimenting my writing and how much my ideas and book have helped someone find some of life’s answers (for them).
I tend to scratch my head a bit and think “Wow, okay that’s cool”.
I have been using the principles of ‘law of attraction’ for over thirty years, but do I really know exactly how it works?
And if I don’t then what qualifies me to write a book about it?
Again, who am I?
I would like to answer that with a question.
My good friend Emily asked me to consider the martial arts today.
In particular I have personal experience of Tai Chi.
I am a student of Taoist Tai Chi, as is my instructor, my instructor’s instructor and so on based on traditions going back some eight hundred or more years.
And the Universe has permission from each of these people to be a channel for its wisdom.
The true wisdom of a good Tai Chi instructor comes from knowing nothing.
By definition a statement of expertise, tells you a person has nothing to learn about a subject.
When a person has nothing to learn about a subject, perhaps they have nothing to teach?
Perhaps a true teaching qualification would be a willingness to learn from each and every encounter and to pass on that wisdom as an invitation or instruction.
In my opinion, we need more facilitators, instructors and students and less experts!
So consider the following.
And please interpret this using your own concept or definition of God, the Universe or whatever suits your beliefs.
You are not on this planet because The Universe wants to teach you something.
In fact you are not on this planet to learn anything at all.
There are NO ANSWERS.
The Universe did not create all this and put YOU here to give you the answers.
The Universe actually hasn’t got a fu*king clue either!
And the one thing the Universe knows absolutely NOTHING about is the ‘law of attraction’.
We are actually here so that the Universe can figure out how it works.
Go on to consider that WE are the Universe’s super computer at work, calculating an outcome so it can come to an understanding of life’s mysteries.
So, if you are consistently getting it wrong, you are doing exactly what the Universe put you here for.
If you think you’ve failed, you’ve succeeded…
Well done, go have a beer, cigarette, hot dog, whatever you fancy. You don’t need to read any further!
However if you think you have got it all figured…
You think you are the switched on guru?
The master?
The great teacher?
The deity?
Wow…
STOP!!!
THINK AGAIN…
No, really – think again!!!
Do not go live with “I am an expert I can teach you this”.
Or “If you would only follow my method you could have success”.
Okay, you may give others the appearance of success, but you WILL ultimately fail yourself.
And the Universe is watching!
Now try modeling this theory in our world.
An example?
I am using a computer to type this.
If this computer had conscious awareness it might be thinking – this guy Mark, who is bashing wildly at my keys is trying to tell me something.
Whoa.
He just deleted that entire paragraph (read into that – created a Tsunami in Word Press).
What did the Tsunami mean?
What if it meant nothing?
In the words of the brilliant philosopher Werner Erhard “It’s all empty and meaningless (and it’s empty and meaningless that it’s empty and meaningless).”
But why?
And why is real happiness found in simply accepting what is and what isn’t?
We cannot connect with consciousness, when we are already simply part of the machinery of consciousness. How can we possibly connect to something which we already are?
So many unanswered questions.
As I said earlier, all of life boils down to one simple concept.
LOVE!
The Universe is in itself LOVE, which doesn’t mean anything, until you realise the Universe itself is trying to learn about and experience LOVE, whatever that might be.
The concept of LOVE shows up everywhere, because the Universe is using itself as a test bed for the concept of LOVE. Or should I say its own concept of itself.
If the Universe is a mad scientist, then YOU are its experiment.
All of creation is using the energy of LOVE to attract and create more LOVE. This will happen infinitely until such a time as all of creation (LOVE) understands all of creation (LOVE).
And the Universe is learning about this moment by moment, through YOU!
How does it relate to ‘law of attraction’?
Once you understand the mechanism, you can actually become a magnet for anything you want to attract into your life.
You are encouraged to feel gratitude.
Go a step further.
Understand the energy of LOVE!
Become LOVE and you become the Universe, the creator. Refute LOVE and you cannot be yourself. You become a lie.
Accept LOVE and that LOVE means different things for different people.
There ARE people on this planet who LOVE doing things you do not.
And please remember, the entire mechanism of life is completely intangible and totally unpredictable.
At any second the truth may simply stop being the truth!
Therefore anyone who claims to have all life’s answers is probably misguided and missing the point.
Don’t let anyone tell you they know exactly how something works.
If your guru is still learning then they have something to teach you!
Which is why, if you are reading my blog, the less I know about anything I write about, in a way, the better it is for you.
Because the more I try to learn and not to teach, the more I will instruct and the more we will both learn.
I am here to question ‘the law of attraction’.
Are you?
Do I know everything there is to know about the ‘law of attraction’?
By reading this you already know something I don’t.
Please comment below.
If you enjoyed reading this blog, you will find more than a handful of similar thought provoking conversations in my book The Logic Of Attraction.
I invite you to buy it here.
See you on the other side of the looking glass,
Apparently some scientist, Victor Stenger to be precise, has debunked “quantum belief”.
The notion that quantum physics connects the human mind to the universe, allowing us to create our own reality.
In a way it’s great, because with that out the way we can start looking at how and why the Law of Attraction really works.
You don’t need to be a quantum physicist to understand it, it really is much simpler.
It works on belief and positive mental, physical and spiritual attitude. It works on perceptual shifts and most of all it’s driven by love.
I don’t need money or stuff to live my adventure, in fact if I had too much money or stuff it would be a spoiler at this stage in the game.
Don’t look to me to be driving a Rolls Royce (unless it is one from the twenties with a whining gearbox), in which case I would rather be driving a supercharged Bentley.
I like to think I arrived in this world in much the same way as in the Woody Allen film “Everything You Wanted To Know About Sex But Were Afraid To Ask” though perhaps from heaven via a spiritual bob sleigh.
When I chose my options, before embarking on my journey, I chose to be on a spectacular spiritual treasure hunt.
Today I was in a fun part of the game.
I was at the house I attracted using my logical super computer today and something reminded me of shipping containers I had seen on the outskirts of the town we are moving to.
I went and visited the yard and I have been offered a really nice one, painted and delivered for a remarkable price.
Which brings me around to my integrity issue.
Having found an alternative vendor, I get to pay less for the thing I was buying for £950 – what’s more I get to buy it from a reputable company and I am paying the tax on it.
As for the other job, I paid him £40 cash.
Partly because we had already made the agreement and my guess is it was beer money.
Partly because I would have come across as odd (in my mind) if I had asked if I could pay buy cheque and pay more.
More importantly, everyone else I contacted had quoted me £70 or more, I had asked the Universe for someone who would do it cheaper and he showed up with an offer.
Who am I to argue with that?
And no, I am not going to answer the question!
See you on the other side of the looking glass,
